Does Pegging Make Me Gay or Dirty?

Does Pegging Make Me Gay or Dirty?

This is probably the most asked and thought about question when considering pegging. The honest answer, ABSOLUTELY NOT. Not even a little bit. If you are not gay or bi-sexual, pegging will not make you all of a sudden be interested in the same sex. Pegging is for a heightened sexual experience. One that you can’t fully understand until you actual try it. And don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Pegging is something that is a fantastic sexual journey for you and your partner. If pegging has been on your mind, then let’s talk about the basics.

The Conversation

The first thing you really need to do is have an open and honest conversation with your partner. She needs to know that it is something you are interested in trying. And doing a little research, like this, will help. Maybe you’ve had a little backdoor action with her and you would like to feel the same pleasures she does. Or maybe you are intrigued by the P-Spot orgasm. Whatever your reasoning, you two really need to have discussion on what you would like and where to start.

Now What?

So that leads us to the next step. Where do you start? You can’t just have your partner ram something up your ass and expect it to feel good.  Essentially there are steps you both need to take for pegging to be a pleasurable experience. A relaxing environment is the key. The focus needs to be on each other and not on the outside world. Maybe having a drink or two will help calm your nerves. I wouldn’t recommend more than that. Too much alcohol could cause loss of sensation and could also cause injuries.

Keep It Clean

Having a bath or shower together is a great way to start and a fantastic way to relax. And being clean is an important step. Its not necessary for you to do a full enema unless you really feel you need to. You can always use an anal douche for a quick clean out. Keeping towels and wipes handy is helpful if there is a small mess. Your partner should also make sure her hands are clean and nails are trimmed. She also has the option of using latex free gloves. If she has long fingernails, try putting part of a cotton swab at the end of the fingers before putting the glove on.

The Foreplay

Now that everyone is clean, let’s get to the good stuff. The foreplay. You don’t want to just dive right into getting a strap-on shoved up your ass. You need some attention. Some kissing, a handjob or blowjob. Whatever gets you in the mood. Once you are in the mood, roll onto your stomach. Possibly with a pillow under your hips. This lets your partner have access to your ass with ease. If she’s into it, let her give you a rim job. Her warm tongue on your anus will feel amazing and help your sphincter relax. By this point, you’ll be ready for a finger.

Oh For the Love of Lube!

Before she goes sticking a finger up there, make sure you have some great lube. There’s never too much lube. Lube makes the whole encounter enjoyable. So with lots of lube she can slowly start inserting her finger. Communication is really important at this point. You will need to tell her when to keep going or when she needs to stop. Needing a moment to relax and breath is common. Once she has her finger all the way in, she needs to find your prostate.

The P-Spot

Oh the wonderful P-Spot. That little bulge inside the anus that brings on an earth shattering orgasm. If you are laying on your stomach, then the p-spot is in and down. You want her to rub it not poke at it. And again, this is were you will need to communicate with her. More pressure, less pressure? Do you want her to slide her finger in and out faster? Slower? Harder? Softer? Maybe your excitement has risen and you would like her to add another finger in your ass.

She can also play with your balls or give you a handjob while she is fucking your ass with her fingers. And keep adding lube if you need to. At this point, its all about what feels good and what feels great.

And the Toys…

This is where you can decide if you would like to add toys. Maybe after your first time you might not be ready for more. Or you might just be ready for anything. Using a butt plug during sex can be exhilarating. There’s beginner sets that are well worth trying. You can start small and work your way up to a larger size. Having something in your ass pressing on your p-spot is an addicting sensation. And of course, you will eventually want a strap-on.

You and your partner will need to choose one that is right for both of you. Start small. Work your way up to the larger ones. Find ones that vibrate her clit while she is fucking your ass. Make the event a truly orgasmic encounter for both of you. Something you both will continue to explore. Pegging is both pleasurable and extremely enjoyable.

Just Try It!

So, if pegging has been on your mind, talk to your partner. Start communicating about what you would like to try. And remember, pegging does not make you gay nor will it turn you gay. It’s all about having the P-Spot orgasm. An orgasm that’s going to make your toes curl and leave you satisfied. So go on, try a little ass play today. You won’t regret it.