Blissful BDSM 2.0

BDSM: Unlock Your Imagination and Heighten Your Pleasure

sex bucket tiedThe book and film Fifty Shades of Gray uncuffed many people’s perceptions about bondage or BDSM (bondage and disciple, sadism and masochism) as it’s often called. What many people had previously perceived as a slightly scary medieval dungeon get-up was replaced with something far less hardcore. If you want to liven up your sex life with BDSM, you don’t need to look like an extra from Conan The Barbarian or have the rope tying skills of a round-the-world yachtsman. More importantly, with the right accouterments it can be mutually consensual and a whole lotta fun. Let’s take off the blindfolds — or perhaps put them on — and go a little deeper.

 

The Backstory

Firstly, a little background on BDSM. It’s not new. Fifty Shades may have taken it mainstream, or as mainstream as it’s likely to go but it’s been around in erotic novels and ancient art for centuries. Bondage works because play-struggling against restraints can increase sexual arousal by heightening the senses. Take away the sense of sight and the body tries to compensate by increasing the sense of touch. The same thing happens when you remove the ability to control and respond with your hands. Do them both together and you’ve booked a one-way ticket to Orgasm City. Tantalizing and teasing with feathers, oils, a

nd other kink gear only increases the anticipation.

 

Tips for Beginners

 

Before you try to think how to subtly slip in “I’d like to be tied up and spanked tonight,” to your partner, a few pointers:

 

  • Best not to try this with strangers. Know the parameters and know your partner is sane and rational. In short — don’t browse Tinder for BDSM hookups or you really might end up in a dungeon with a Conan wannabe.

 

  • If you need a few tips, look at some porn — nothing hardcore but fun play-acting stuff.

 

  • Entry-level (no pun intended) bondage, is the way to go. Start slowly with a partner you trust and know can always hot the stop button if you feel uncomfortable.

 

  • Forget commonly held perceptions about role-playing. Anyone can be dominant and anyone can be submissive. Try things out and see what you like.

 

Sex Toys to Rocket Fuel Your BDSM

 

Okay, so now you’re in the mood. Here are some sex toys to help your first (or second or third…) forays into the freaky world of BDSM.

 

Fifty Shades Delicious Silcone Balls: Although the description — short rounds weights designed to train your pelvisBDSM benwa balls and vagina muscles — might sound like something a physical therapist, as opposed to a sex therapist might recommend, these were made popular by the Fifty Shades movie. And guess what? They work. A tight vagina only heightens your partner’s pleasure and allows a woman greater control and will have her screaming in pleasure as she goes about her everyday activities. Warning: Don’t wear these to work! They’re also referred to as Ben-wa Balls, jiggle balls, kegel balls, toner balls, and pleasure balls.

 

Vibrator: You can never go wrong with a vibrator. Although the common perception is that these are for solo missions only, having a partner in control of the on/off switch is a sure-fire way to get you fired up.

 

Rouge Suede Sexy Flogger: An alternative to spanking is flogging, a suede flogger gives a new tactile sensation forhttps://d1o1wlqwda3y1b.cloudfront.net/NAL/CNVNAL-5317856317900d5480.jpg the recipient and is easy to use too.

 

Fetish Fantasy Lovers Fantasy Kit: A whip, handcuffs, and a blindfold. Need we say more?

 

Frisky Feather Duster: Not to be used for cleaning the blinds, but rather, driving your blindfolded partner insane!

 

Japanese Drip Candle: Light up the night with these warm drip candles that will send you into a sensory overload.https://d1o1wlqwda3y1b.cloudfront.net/NAL/CNVNAL-231615eea19cdf1832.jpg

 

Try these out and you’ll never think about sex the same again. Enjoy!

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