Beginner Sex Toys and Orgasms
Sex toys. Oh the great pleasure of having a device that can bring you immense joy and orgasms. So why are people afraid to use them? Is it the faux pas that using sex toys make you a “slut” or a “pervert”? Personally, I don’t give a shit what society thinks about me. If I want to use a vibrator or a dildo to have an orgasm, then I will. That is the point of sex, right? The end result. The big “O”!
I realize there is the true intimate part of sex and everything that leads up to the orgasm is important. But let’s be realistic here, we are doing it for that mind blowing sensation that takes over our whole body. Where every nerve is happy and everything feels wonderful for those few moments. There really isn’t much you can compare to in life to a toe curling, back arching, take your breathe away orgasm. So what’s wrong with using toys?
No Partner, No Problem!
If you don’t have a partner, you still deserve an orgasm. If you do have a partner, nothing wrong with a little help from a sex toy. Or three sex toys. Who cares how you achieve your final goal. It’s not wrong to give or receive pleasure. And you should not care if that pleasure came from a vibrator, pocket pussy or your own hand. Humans are sexual creatures and we orgasm for a reason.
Teaching a Partner
Sex toys are great for learning and teaching you or your partner. If you have never had an orgasm before, there are plenty of toys out there to help you out with that. There are a lot of women out there who have settled for mediocre sex because they have no idea what a real orgasm is. If you happen to be one of those women, I would recommend trying a small bullet vibrator. Nothing fancy or complicated.
First Time Trying
They are small and usually pretty quiet. Find some alone time. Start at a low speed and just put it directly on your clitoris. It might take a few minutes to start that feel good sensation. And don’t over think it. Stop thinking it’s wrong. Relax. Go slow. Change the speed. Enjoy the moment. As your body starts to react to the vibrations, you will become more sensitive to touch. Play with your breasts and nipples. You may need a little lubrication to help things along. Make things slide and glide a little more easily. Use a lube that’s right for you. If you are not sure, pick something for sensitive use.
So how do you know when you’ve had an orgasm? I want to tell you that you will just know. But I get for some women, if you haven’t had one, feeling really good down there might make you think you have. You have to feel more than good. There is this incredible wave that starts at your vagina and spreads out through your whole body. It can take your breathe away. Make you completely lose track of time. Make every worry you have disappear. For a few moments, the pleasure that erupts through your body is completely satisfying.
It releases endorphins. It releases stress. It is a euphoric moment. And you will want to feel is again. I find that a good orgasm just makes the day better. And ending your day with an orgasm makes for a better night sleep.
Using a sex toy is easier then using your hand. They are designed to hit the right spots quickly. Bring on orgasms faster. And make you a happier person. Step out of your comfort zone, and try something a little different. Find the best vibrator that works for you. Whether its a clit sucker or a magic wand , you will know what you enjoy. Sex toys are a great way to start having fantastic orgasms.